Client Success Stories

Being the very first person to move into a newly opened program is something to be proud of—and Michelle truly is. She has been part of our Hudson program since day one.

Michelle came to HIL during a time of uncertainty and nervousness. After living in her previous home for over 10 years, she was suddenly faced with the need to find a new place when her long-term residence closed. Having known only one place as “home” for so long, the idea of moving brought a mix of emotions and hesitation.

When the HIL team first met Michelle, she was unsure and resistant to the change. She said that she didn’t want to move and hoped to find a way to remain where she was. However, when the team returned just a week later, Michelle had a change of heart. With determination, she shared that she was ready for a fresh start—she began packing her belongings and took that brave next step forward.

Although she still experienced some anxiety about the transition, Michelle embraced the move as an opportunity for growth and new beginnings. Her kind heart, helpful nature, and vibrant, social personality quickly shined through. She has worked hard to adjust to a new team, new routines, and a new level of independence in her home at HIL.

Michelle takes great pride in the life skills she has been developing, including doing laundry, cooking, helping plan meals, and creating shopping lists. She also enjoys spending time with staff, whether it’s going on outings, working on crafts, doing her hair, or painting her nails.

Since moving to HIL, Michelle’s journey has been truly transformative. She continues to set personal goals, build her skills, and make meaningful progress each day. From feeling anxious about change to embracing new opportunities, Michelle’s growth has been inspiring—and we are confident she will continue to thrive.

Andrew moved to Homes for Independent Living in September 2019. He joined us after trying other support settings that, unfortunately, were unable to fully meet his care needs.

Before seeking additional support, Andrew lived with his family. However, as his care and behavioral needs increased, it became difficult for his family to provide the necessary environment. The decision to seek outside help was not easy for Andrew’s parents; their deep connection with him made it important to find a place that would be understanding, consistent, and prioritize Andrew’s overall wellbeing.

At previous placements, Andrew often refused to leave his environment, missing essential doctors’ appointments and the joys of community life. He also engaged in behaviors that led to unintentional self-harm.

Upon moving in with HIL, Andrew faced challenges adjusting to his new home and surroundings. He struggled with property destruction and overwhelming emotions that resulted in behavioral outbursts. Building connections with new caregivers and establishing trust took time, but with the support of familiar caregivers, consistent routines, and his family, Andrew gradually adapted.

Andrew’s family shares that since settling into HIL, he has become more affectionate, responds positively to others, and shows genuine interest in building relationships. He is also less rigid about routines and has demonstrated a willingness to try new things, including restaurants and new experiences.

Having consistent, regular staff who truly understand Andrew and allow him to form meaningful relationships has been a key factor in his progress. Since moving into his current home, Andrew has shown increased independence, improved overall health and a calmer demeanor.

Reflecting on home visits, Andrew’s mom notes that initially they were difficult, and Andrew did not want to return home. Recently, however, when his sister mentioned going home, Andrew eagerly joined her. Now, he both enjoys visiting home and loves where he is living.

Andrew is truly thriving in his current placement. We look forward to him continuing to develop his independence, learning new skills, and trying new activities. His family feels fortunate to see him so happy and grateful to have found Homes for Independent Living, and we are lucky to be able to support this special individual.

“Moving to HIL changed me in a better way. It was the best decision for me. I can be myself, goof off, and be funny. I make better choices and feel safe.” Knowing this is how Ryan feels makes the HIL staff truly happy.

Ryan joined HIL in October 2024 after leaving another Adult Family Home (AFH), where he had a negative experience. That environment left him feeling anxious and apprehensive about what to expect at HIL. Ryan first moved into a 1:1 behavioral home to ensure he had the support and reassurance he needed. We understood that it would take time for him to realize that HIL was different, and our staff worked hard to show him that everyone here is dedicated to his well-being and safety.

After a few months, Ryan had settled in and was able to transition to a three-bed home, where he now lives with two roommates he really connects with. He often shares how much he enjoys their company and how much fun they have together. While living alone was okay, Ryan truly appreciates having roommates.

Throughout his time in both programs, Ryan has made remarkable progress. He now attends a day program weekly for social activities, has formed friendships, and participates in music therapy. He also remains committed to his faith, attending church and Bible study with his mom, and enjoying Christian Rock music.

His current program supervisor has expressed pride in how much Ryan has grown. He’s become more open, is trying new things in the community, and especially enjoys the weekly dinners out at local restaurants. Ryan frequently mentions his appreciation for the dedicated staff who support him, help him maintain a healthy routine, and encourage his independence with self-care and household responsibilities.

Although Ryan was initially nervous about moving to another group home, he now encourages others in similar situations to give it a try. He has gone from feeling anxious, quiet, and reserved to being communicative, adventurous, and engaged with those around him. Ryan is happy and thriving at HIL, and we are grateful to have him as part of our community!